Sex codes

You might be confused about all the codes used between gay men. Especially when chatting on the internet or by an app. I will try to list most of the codes used between gay men when talking about sex and fetishes.

2 on 1
– Sex involving two men topping one sub.

Aggro
– Rough play; punching, wrestling, kicking, slapping etc.

Amyl
– Australian slang for poppers.

Ash tray service
– Human body used as ash tray for cigarette or cigar ash. Most commonly the mouth or outstretched hand or other body areas are used.

Bagpiping
– Fucking someones armpit.

Ball busting
– Hitting or kicking balls(testicles).

Ball squeeze
– Balls(testicles) are getting squeezed by hand or other equipment.

BB
– Bareback, fucking without the use of condoms.

BC
– Breath control

BD
– Bondage and discipline.

BDSM
– Bondage and domination, sado-masochism, getting turned on by using power, control or pain – with consent – during sex.

Bear
– Heavy, hairy men.

Bottom
– Man that let other tak control, gives blowjob, getting fucked etc.

Branding
– Making permanent marks or patterns on the skin with heated metal.

Breath control
– Getting turned on by restricting your or another’s air supply through (controlled) strangulation, rebreathing, suffocation, hanging.

Breed
– To fuck or getting fucked without condom.

Brown
– Scat(shit).

Caths
– Catheters.

CBT
– Cock and ball torture.

Chariot racing
– Fisting two arses at the same time.

Chasity
– Wearing metal or plastic device that stops a man walking or having sex over time.

Chems
– Recreational/party drugs.

Chemsex
– Having sex on drugs.

Collared
– Formally committed in a Master/slave-type relationship, this can be symbolised by wearing an actual dog collar or a more discreet chain.

CP
– Corporal punishment, eg, spanking or hitting with belts, straps or whips.

Cub
– Younger bear-type.

Cum control
– Repeated, prolonged arousal of someone (usually restrained) to the point of ejaculation, then stopping to prevent orgasm. Especially intense if the person is eventually allowed to come.

Cum dump
– Man who takes cum inside ass or mouth.

Cut / uncut
– Circumcised / Uncircumcised.

Cybersex
– Playing together over webcam etc.

Dawg
– The sub role in dog/Master play.

Dirty
– Sex involving piss or shit(scat).

Dog
– The sub role in dog/Master play.

Dom
– Man who dominates / Being Master.

Double fisting
– Putting two fists inside ass.

dp
– Double penetration, taking two cocks or dildos in the ass at once.

Edge, edgeplay
– Sex involving real or simulated physical or psychological danger that is over the edge of traditional safe and sane play, for example cutting, needles, weapons, breath control, branding, abduction/abuse scenes, scat and role play based on age or incest.

Electro
– Sexual stimulation with electricity.

Feltching
– When fucking without condom, then licking cum out of the ass or cleaning dirty dick.

Fem
– Effeminate man

Feminisation
– Wearing women’s clothing, especially underwear, being referred to in (often derogatory) female terms, this can be forced as a form of degradation in sexual role play. This is also known as sissification/being sissified.

FF
– Fucking with fist.

Flip / Verse
– To change from the top/active role to bottom/passive.

Gang bang
– Group sex.

Gar
– Cigar.

Gob
– Sex involving spitting on others or being spat on.

Golden shower
– Pissing over a man or getting pissed on.

Hung
– Large cock.

Jackhammering
– When one man puts his dick and hand inside the other man’s arse, then wanks himself off inside the guy’s arse. Also known as piston fucking.

JO
– Jerk or jacking off (Masturbating.

K9
– Canine, role play where one man plays the part of being a dog, the other his master.

Limits
– The line marking what someone is/isn’t willing to do sexually. No limits means they will do anything, no matter how extreme (the mark of either a fantasist or someone to avoid).

Masochist
– Someone who gets sexual enjoyment from feeling pain (masochism).

Master
– The dominant part who controls a sub.

Milking
– Prostate massage. A man gently stimulating with fingers, dildo, vibrator or something similar another man’s prostate gland (inside the arse) in order to get prostate fluid, a clear or milky liquid, (different to but looking like pre-cum) oozing from his cock. Can also mean forcing repeated ejaculation until no cum is left in the man.

Mummification
– Wrapping the body in tape, cling film or similar. Leaving only holes to breathe through.

Needles
– Using needles to cause pain. Often used to pierce dick, ballsack or nipples.

Neg.
– HIV negative.

PA
– Prince Albert, a piercing in the head of the dick.

Perve
– Man who are into sex or stuff other find disgusting; spit, piss, licking boots, licking toilet etc.

Pig
– Man into sleazy sex, possibly including piss, rimming, being humiliated.

Pits
– Armpits

Poz
– HIV postitive

Pumping
– Using vacuum pumps to enhance an erection.

Punch fucking
– Fist fucking, but harder.

Raw
– Sex without using condoms.

Rosebud
– Internal rectal tissue sticking out through the arse hole due to heavy arse play such as fisting.

Sadist
– Someone who gets sexual enjoyment from inflicting pain on others (sadism).

Safe word / Stop word
– Word, code or signal agreed before sex to signal something isn’t ok or to stop.

Slamming
– Injecting drugs, often crystal meth.

SM / S&M
– Sado-masochism; sexual enjoyment of pain, control or power.

Slave
– Someone who wants to be the submissive partner or bottom in a relationship with a Master, and who is usually also a masochist. Their owner exercises degrees of control over their life (property, finances, personal freedom). This may be role play restricted to sex sessions or be more a 24/7 lifestyle. Ownership (or enslavement or servitude) often symbolised by wearing a Master’s collar.

Sleep sack
– Close-fitting zipped and laced up leather, rubber or canvas body bag used in bondage scenes.

Sounds / Sounding
– Thin metal rods inserted down the urethra (piss pipe).

Sub
– Man who takes the submissive role in sex.

Top
– Man who takes the dominant role in sex (and probably does the fucking), to take the dominant role.

Toys
– Sex toys: dildos, butt plugs, also vacuum pumps and genital restraints such as cockrings.

TT
– Tit torture / Hard play with tits.

Twink
– Young boy late teens or early twenties depending on boys look. Slim without body hair.

Vanilla
– Sex (oral and anal, mutual masturbation) that doesn’t involve anything kinky such as rough sex, fetishes, SM, bondage, piss, fisting.

Vers / Versatile
– Can be both top or bottom in sex.

Wank / Wanker
– Masturbate.

WS
– Watersports, also known as piss play, golden showers, yellow; playing with piss during sex, also drinking it or watching others piss.

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